Today is the halfway point of the 16 Days of Action. I have two posts for you today. First up, I bring you a guest post from Anna Drew. I met Anna earlier this year at MediaLit. Actually, come to think of it, I met alot of really fabulous people that week. Anna’s smart, engaging and very funny. She loves her husband Jim, her ipad, (and dare I damage her reputation for good taste, she has a soft spot for UK drama Holby City). Besides all that she’s a wonderful communicator. I am glad people like Anna work to teach those in the church how to communicate with the media in positive and productive ways.
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** spoiler alert **
Without wishing to reinforce the stereotypes too much I do love a girls’ night out. A movie, my best girlie buddies and a bucket of popcorn the size of my Fiat make an irresistible combination.
So last Tuesday we trundled off to the Odeon to check out Breaking Dawn Part I – the penultimate film in the four-book five-film vampire teen phenomenon penned by Stephanie Meyer. For those unfamiliar with the series here’s a super-brief overview to the background:
Moody, skinny teenager Bella Swan moves to live with her father in gloomy, rainy Forks, Washington. It rains a lot, she doesn’t fit in. She falls in love with a sexy young vampire called Edward Cullen. But she also quite likes werewolf Jacob Black. Both blokes fancy her. She picks Edward and wants him to turn her into a vampire so they can live out eternity together. He promises to ‘turn her’ after their wedding day.
Twihards (hardcore fans) see it as the perfect combination of fantasy, horror and love triangle.
In the latest film, Edward and Bella get married, but decide to postpone her transformation so they can enjoy their honeymoon (it’s apparently very painful to become undead). But before that can happen she gets pregnant with a vampire baby who nearly kills her, but is eventually delivered safely and Edward turns Bella into a vampire in order to save her from death. The end.
So, a nice fantasy/horror/chick flick? My mates seemed to think so. I, however, came away depressed and infuriated in equal measure. To me, the film seemed nothing short of misogynistic.
Edwards and Bella’s coupling seems to me to have all the hallmarks of an abusive relationship. He’s jealous, he’s controlling, he watches her all the time (literally – he goes into her bedroom at night to watch her while she sleeps), he instinctively wants to harm her (suck her blood) and can barely control himself. He hates himself for this, but it’s her fault for being so damn delicious. In Breaking Dawn, his lovemaking leaves her covered with bruises, the bedroom destroyed. He doesn’t want to harm her, but she wants it and that’s part of the package. When she gets pregnant, he’s furious with her for not being willing to abort the baby (admittedly, it’s some weird vampire demon baby that will probably kill her).
This all made my skin crawl. But there was one other worrying element. When a werewolf falls in love, it ‘imprints’ on that person who is then destined to become their life partner. Jacob imprints on Bella’s baby daughter shortly after her birth. You might call that imprinting, I call grooming. My best friend tells me that it’s OK because the baby (Renesmee – I know) will grow up very quickly. Oh, right. Well, that’s definitely OK then. Totally.
My good friend Paul pointed out that many films depict violence, horror and abuse… but I don’t object to them. And that’s true – I love a good scare or a gritty biopic as much as anyone else. But I think this film takes things a step further.
I know it’s just a story, but actually, I think stories are very important. Especially the stories that we tell young women and men about how they relate to one another and how they should view themselves. Not only does it depict a violent relationship, it romanticizes and glorifies it as ‘true love’.
I’m not naturally pro-censorship and I’m not even sure I’d want Twilight removed from our screens, but I am concerned that not more people are worried about the messages it is giving young women about relationships. And I don’t think I’d mind the Twilight phenomenon so much if millions of girls and women (including my closest friends) weren’t fawning all over Edward. “HE WANTS TO SUCK YOUR BLOOD!” I want to scream at them.
I left wondering how we might challenge these damaging stories, and whether Hollywood will ever let us tell the positive ones.
Anna Drew is an Anglican working for the Methodist Church in Britain as Lead Media Officer. She is passionate about theology, film, radio and online communication. She lives in Kent with her husband Jim.
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This post is part of the 16 Days of Action toward eliminating violence against women. The 16 Days of Action is a global campaign founded by the Center for Women’s Global Leadership at Rutgers University, I’m hosting posts across the 16 days, from 25 November to 10 December. You can help by sharing these posts on social media, by taking care of the women around you, & by standing against violence against women. A full list of posts.Related posts:
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